No matter how much conflict and friction are, my husband will eventually seek peace and good. "My marriage is my husband's merit." Chen Anjun said that with the increase of age, the two seemed to have almost finished their work, but without the tolerance of the past, there would be no sweet fruit today.

There was a time before that "family loss in marriage" was a hot topic. I don't know how many people felt when they were touching lightly; then how many people could still "love in marriage"? How can we make "hands of your son and grow old together" not be said to be a saying? Chen Anjun, a Shenzhen media person who has been married for nearly 25 years, said, "Love after marriage needs to be "see."

The love between an old couple is...I am willing to satisfy you

"Young love is more passionate and romantic, but as the family's responsibility increases, love will exist in different forms in marriage; it does not disappear, but is presented in different ways. In the long-term life, even if you can't feel the existence of love, you calmly observe and love often comes back."

"It is undeniable that my husband occasionally becomes unattractive to me. But I think that liking someone is more related to "self". If you don't love someone, it may be related to your current state. But when he changed his hairstyle or did a little move by chance, maybe I felt relaxed at that time, and I would feel a little more love."

Chen Anjun's relationship with her husband can grow longer and become more fragrant as she grows. She smiled and said that her husband was not willing to give up and made great contributions. However, after decades of running-in, she herself changed a lot. After entering her mature years, she can open all the inner sluts to her husband, "I have changed a lot with him. It is a very happy thing to have an unspeakable partner."

"My husband has a great advantage. He will satisfy me as much as possible. On Fridays ago, the Kuaishua family in Yilan was about to open, but we usually stay at our home in Taipei on holidays. I thought, if I really waited until Monday, I would like to thank you! My husband said, "If you want to see it, go back and see it!" So we stuffed a half-hour car from Taipei back to our home in Yilan just because I wanted to see it."

"If you say love, that's it!"

Be brave to be yourself in marriage, and your husband and family love you even more

"I have not encountered many problems in marriage, but I have experienced many life. I will choose to deal with events quickly without turning them into problems. I know very well what I want to do, and I don't need to cooperate with others. My boundaries are clear and I can do what I say and do, and I also need to have my own space."

Chen Anjun mentioned that she was 12 years old and was seeking independent learning and living outside. Before marrying her husband, she had a passionate love experience. So she realized that "in the relationship, the other party will not change because of your softness; I learned to teach, don't make the same mistake again."

Chen Anjun, who did not let herself be wronged, made her husband willing to retreat and change. No matter how much conflict and friction, her husband will eventually seek peace and good. "My marriage is my husband's merit." Chen Anjun said that with the increase of age, the two seemed to have almost finished their work, but without the tolerance of the past, there would be no sweet fruit today.

"My husband is a very filial and family-oriented person. He is very close to his family, and he is also very good to my father. I know that my mother-in-law is very attached to my husband. If my husband wants to be as filial as possible, I will let him accompany his mother."

Chen Anjun and her husband are brave and conservative mutual relationships. They are also good partners who pursue spiritual satisfaction and fulfillment and family responsibilities. The two are partners and good friends. Looking back at the first time, they have changed now because they have become better.

There is a love between husband and wife, which is more intimate than good friends

"I have been married for more than 20 years, and he has been "assimilated" by me. For example, he didn't watch art movies before, and when he saw slow-movies, he said to me, 'You watch it yourself.' But now even stage dramas are willing to watch; sometimes I turn over to watch him, and he is more moved than me, and the person who cries so hard is the one who is the one who is full of tears."

"We have a cat in our house. At first I wanted to take it home, but my husband said he disagrees when he heard it, but now he plays cats every day. We traveled to Africa before, and at first he was against it, but in the end, he took the most photos, and he liked to show off to his friends the most."

"I have made a big change myself. I took it for granted that he was nice to me before. Once I went to California with my good friends and went shopping in a boutique for 4 or 5 minutes. My husband was watching the kids. My friend reminded me, 'Your husband is really good to you, and there is no complaint.' I realized that my husband is really special. Now I don't forget to express my gratitude to him and thank him for his efforts to me."

"He used to say no to many things, but now he will say it! What I used to be angry about is not angry now. We all know the personality of the other party. Every night, the two of them visit the cat together. Our love seems to be "expanded."

Chen Anjun said that she and her husband can talk about anything now, even if they stand on the scene and have different ideas, it will not affect them. They are like "close friends in the hall" who can share all the secrets..

"One day I chatted with my husband, and even I felt a little scary... 'My best friend is you now!" '"

Chen Anjun said that when a partner is together, he will be able to get better and achieve each other. If the more you become unhappy and everything goes well, the two of you will not be able to see it fit.

If I really have a child, I have to experience a life without marriage

"If I can choose to download it, I will not get married. It's not that I don't want my companion, but that I want to enjoy another life! There are too many responsibilities in marriage and family. Although this responsibility will bring sweet memories, I can do something different."

People say that they have a hair tied up, and Chen Anjun rationally said that it is good to cherish it. Love must be so irreversible. The purpose of our lives may be to experience the various appearances of life.

"If you have the opportunity, I want to volunteer in Mongolia. I want to do something different from what I want now, and enjoy another challenge, and it is also to change the current existing perspective and life."

"The ideal old age in my heart is the day when writer Qi Bangyuan wrote the masterpiece "Jiuliu River" in the village of Shaosheng, because she decided to have her own life, know what she wants, and make her own choices. When the work slowly comes to an end, I will continue to write in a temporary manner."

The two people are very happy together, and they are also very happy when they are alone. Chen Anjun's second half of his life will definitely be more exciting. A person who knows where he is going, not only feels at ease, but also looks extraordinary with everyone.

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