Editor: Although they are only 30 or 40 years old, some have already developed a "big mother-like feeling", while others are old and always have a girlish temperament. What is the difference? A Japanese website recently released a "Obasan Dangerousness Checklist" and five discriminatory statements about "Obasan's gas quality". Regardless of age, you can always maintain a sense of physical and mental youth.

What kind of behavior or habit will make people feel like they are emitting "Obasan"? The following are 10 indicators. If you meet more than 5 items, it may mean that you are a "Obasan high-risk group":

1. The slings are always stuffed with bulging objects

2. The less clothes you buy, the less you buy?

3. When you walk on the road, you often bump into people

4. The less time you look at the lens

5. No longer swear to others

6. The more you complain at work

7. No longer feel moved about love stories

8. I will clap my hands and laugh at them

9. If I don't move, I like to touch others

10. It is the beginning of Obasanculation that does not care about gum or candy for others. It is the beginning of Obasanculation that does not like to buy clothes, always put various objects in the leather, and the hairstyle always remains unchanged. No longer paying attention to the appearance or not caring about fashion, it may be the beginning of Obasanculation. When I was on the date, I took out the leather trunk from my bag, and stuffed it with all kinds of charges and zero money, which made me feel sloppy and didn't take care of my life well.

In addition, if you are unconsciously amplifying the volume, playing with your hands or doing too much in a public venue, you will immediately find a seat on the bus or subway. Behaviors like this that do not respect other people's feelings will also give people a rough and unelegant impression. Don’t forget to give me a gift in everything, not only does it show good education, but also the key to staying young.

"Ah, there seems to be spots here, so take care of yourself before going to bed." "I look a little tired recently, so I can rest in the morning at night." If you often look at the lens and look at yourself intentionally, you can avoid aging without thinking.

Don't worry too much when others can't read "social distancing"

Being kind and good at caring for the audience may be a maternal charm, but if it's too much, you may be considered a tragic person or love for things. Clapping and laughing and loving to suddenly pull others on the shoulders to speak may make people feel sleepy.

If you give gum or candy to someone sitting next door, you may be mistakenly explained by the other party as "Do you think my mouth is smelly?" In order to get closer, suddenly asking an unfamiliar person about personal privacy, or excessive physical contact may also make the other party feel abrupt and uncomfortable.

In addition, like in the community software, there are always too many unrelated leisure conversations. If the other party can't read it, he will be angry, and if he doesn't rely on someone, he will feel uneasy. In fact, it is a manifestation of lack of independence and autonomy in his spirit. Before making an action, think more about "will you feel uncomfortable if the target changes into yourself?" so that you will not put pressure on the other party.

Negative thinking and love complaining can also make people look older

"The relationship and work are not smooth", "There are no interesting things recently", "I can't feel moved after reading love stories"…… People who often have this kind of thought may have a tendency to think negatively.

always thinks that it is impossible for you to do it, or that your efforts are useless. When you encounter something, you always make yourself unable to do it. Over time, you may miss the potential opportunity and make your atmosphere and your movements worse.

Don't always confuse past failures or shortcomings, remember only the places that should be reflected on or corrected, without duplicating the same error. When you meet new challenges with a new mood, there may be a new harvest or a possibility of good things.

Self-discipline can relax 5 rules to keep your body and mind young

Finally, the website has also compiled 5 simple rules to keep your body and mind young:

1. Always smile

2. Close your lower abdomen at any time

3. Never forget to say hello and show off your face

4. The mood of embracing people around you

5. It is suitable for taking care of the appearance and has a sense of cleanliness

to keep it refreshing and elegant from the inside out, making people around you feel comfortable and comfortable. No matter how old you are, you can be a compelling beauty.

Original text: Japanese media announced the 10 indicators of "Obasan Flavor"! Avoiding grandparents, 5 elegant and young ways to live