It turns out that Wu Nian really lives nothing like ordinary people. He is too busy to communicate every day. He adapts books, shoots advertisements, and charity lectures. There are a bunch of books on the table like a pile of small hills. "Every day I am 'fighting' time alone!" The 66-year-old Ojisan in front of him said with a smile that he had just learned to refuse recently and slowly gave him time.

Wu Nianzhen usually likes to take a walk and play golf. In these years, she often feels that her physical strength is a little worse than before, but she doesn't realize the existence of "old".

He once fell in the bathroom and recently stepped on the air off the stairs. The doctor reminded him seriously: "You are old, can you exercise be a little less?" He realized that he was almost 70 years old!

Interestingly, the stage drama "Human Condition 2" was reenacted a few days ago. Wu Nianzhen went to play the role of a squid chef with a straight nose. One scene was that after his family "fighting the cup", he squatted down to help his family "fighting the cup", because the speed of squatting down and standing up was really fast. After the performance, the audience couldn't help asking him: "How old are you? Why is your knee so good?"

Although the knee is still "brave", Wu Nianzhen lost a very important time in his life: food. "It's really a pity to not hear anything!"

Influenced by family traditions, Wu Nianzhen can no longer smell the aroma of food, nor can she have everything in color, fragrance and taste. No matter how you eat, she will never be able to lose her mouth. Even if she tastes expensive truffles, "It's useless no matter how expensive it is! It's like eating the crumbs of soft corks." He laughed again.

In addition to losing, middle-aged people also gained a deeper level. Later, he discovered what noodles and rice noodles soup he loved to eat before. Although he tasted it flat, with the support of his memory, the taste became three-dimensional.

For example, a bowl of noodles can bring him back to his hometown. Later, Wu Nianzhen wrote the memories brought by these regrets into a new book "The True Taste of Time", which mentioned his "big pit" in his hometown, which was a mine village with long-standing fogs.

At that time, as long as the accident sound was heard in the mine, it meant that several families were broken. In the purity of the family cried, Wu Nianzhen knew what was unpredictable since childhood.

"At a year, you will know very well that life is coming. I am not afraid of death, and it seems to be natural if I leave now. Otherwise, I would have to bother others to move you there, which would be very tiring!"

There are three family members in Wu Nianzhen's family. Because they cannot get sick, life is difficult, and depression, they choose to end their lives by hand.

Speaking of the deceased family, Wu Nian really lost the volume: "There must be regrets in life, it is not difficult, but loneliness. You will want to say that at this age, brothers and sisters should come to chat, but two are gone."

Life is magical. If you lose something, you can always gain wisdom. So he often encourages people who encounter setbacks: "Even if you are fired tomorrow, don't be afraid! Because life is originally a movie, when the lights light up, you will know what the ending is like."

Whether the current drama is wonderful or sad, who can make a comment before the performance is finished and the lights are still open?

"I'm afraid that some people will all get the same regardless of the past 10 years. Whether it's pain or joy, at least a symbol in life, it's a life mark."

The plot has ups and downs, and every choice depends on his own wishes. He is not afraid of death. He doesn't want to care about the evaluation of "Wu Nianzhen" by irrelevant people. In fact, this is really a shame!

What you will stay after middle age are important

The slit book on the desk is like a small hill, which is really ready to write a preface for young writers, "Every generation has its own scenery. After we finish the story of this generation, let's leave the stage quietly and watch it from the side!"

And Wu Nianzhen is not just watching, but in fact he jumped down to help.

In order to take care of children from different countries, Wu Nianzhen established a post-class coaching class, providing a small sense of after-study, and also being able to ask for training courses. Wu Nianzhen sincerely gave an example: "In order to be afraid that the class name is too formal, for example, if this class is managed by me, it will be called "Uncle Nianzhen's Secret Base". I don't think I am old, because I often work with young people!"

The office of Wu Nianzhen, the one that contains the most indoors is the book. There is an old black and white photo of Hou Xiaoqian, Ono and others, as well as the late Yang Dechang. The Wu Nianzhen in the photo really looks elegant and a little cool, and looks at the lens.

When talking about the friendship between middle-aged people, Wu Nianzhen's expression and movements all calmed down: "Many good friends have lost contact because of the time, and the meeting has become more and more elegant. It's a pity, but friendship is like this. When you feel it is not suitable, just leave!"

He used the example of a book full of the cabinet, "If you don't like reading this book or not, you can change it!" Time is limited.

Life is a river of flowing. I don’t really want to strengthen my thoughts about life and feelings lost. My own feelings are the most important. True maturity is to accept regrets and live in peace with it. This is the wisdom that middle-aged people should have.

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